Record

Abusers are often clever and it can take a long time for them to be found out. Frequently it is a pattern of apparently small incidents or observations that can unmask them.

It is important that you record the details of your concerns or an incident while you can clearly remember them, including date, place, time and names. Don’t wait until something else happens because you won’t be able to recall the details accurately. Even if it is just something small that is nagging at the back of your mind, make a note of the details. It may occur again, or you may notice other things that confirm your suspicion, or other people may have also noticed something so a pattern starts to emerge.

If you seek advice or go on to report your concern then record this as well.

Further information:

Croquet England’s Child Safeguarding – Reporting procedures

Croquet England’s Adult Safeguarding – Reporting procedure

It is not your responsibility to decide whether abuse has taken place, but it is your responsibility to act on your concerns.